Maturity is a state of being observed and seen to be behaving and thinking in a sensible, adult manner. As it is popularly said, age is not a criteria used in measuring one’s level of maturity but it acts as a clause in terms of exposure and experiences you get in life.
Disguise on the other hand is a state at which you change your appearance so that people cannot recognise you. To make it at some stages in life, you have to Disguise. Although the game of achieving an aim amidst Disguise has been mistaken for FAKE.
Being fake ain’t disguising, it simply means one is not proud of what or who he/she is. You can Disguise to be fake to achieve an aim but you can never be originally fake and call that a form of Disguise. Maturity is adopted in virtually all areas of life ranging from relationships, intelligence level, mission orientation, aim accomplishment, anger management, human interaction, speech utterances, leadership, daily conducts and so on.
Disguise can also be termed “Character cloning”. It’s temporary and don’t stand the test of time. Maturity is real, can’t be hidden, stands the test of time and is a major tool in attaining life upmost heights.
Disguise in a relationship never supports but rather crumbles it. Pretending to be who you are not passes a wrong signal to your partner who is out believing you for whom he/she thinks you are. Being real and adopting some level of maturity boosts a relationship. As a matured individual, you overlook so many things in a relationship not because you can’t react but because of your level of understanding, you just have to let go. 100% of successful relationships are built on trust which is an end product of MATURITY. Just as gold has to pass through fire before it glitters, so also Alot of sacrifices are made towards having having a perfect relationship. “it takes two to tangle” and so maturity must be balanced before it yields success in a relationship. A nagging wife can never make a good home and so is an irresponsible man. In displaying some forms of maturity, the sacrifices one make triggers some sense of understanding and goes a long way to put things in place. Disguise in a relationship could be side-lined to a factor that poses at correcting a deformity with the main aim of coming back to your original self when the plan is successful. In other words, you can Disguise to save your relationship but not taking advantage of your partners weakness.
“Before you catch a thief, you need to think like a thief”; That’s intelligence. In a class for the intelligentsia, the smartest would pose a Disguise to stand out and that distinguishes it from the rest. This is achieved through Disguise. Maturity goes a long way in facilitating your level of intelligence while intelligence is not a measure of maturity. “Passing your grades is not passing your senses”.. . . . .. . Leonard. They are 2(two) parallel line that could only meet if and only if you show some level of maturity with intelligence. Intelligence is applied in several other aspects of human existence such as forensic research, criminal investigation, scientific research, modern research and invention, politics and sports to mention but a few.
” The enemy you know they say is better than the angel you don’t know”. That’s Disguise for you. Anger is a very strong feeling you harbour deep within you when something happens that you feel is bad or unfair. Level of tolerance in individuals varies ranging from various levels of maturity. Age has nothing to do with a level at which one displays some form of anger. Instead as you advance in age, it is supposed that you also advance in maturity and have some form of tolerance towards anger. Disguise could be inculcated when angered and it could be termed maturity only when it’s positive. Pretence is not maturity when angered but a form of camouflage. This is very lethal most especially when you don’t know what your opponent harbours / plans in mind for you. And so, you have to be wise and smart in reading people’s mind / actions to determine why they sometimes act the way they do. A more explained article on anger management will come later in the episodes.
Other aspects which include human interaction, speech utterances, leadership, daily conducts and so on requires maturity and some forms of Disguise because you don’t know who lies beside you, what they have in mind or what action they want to take.